I wasn't sure I was going to mention it, but I understand
Debbie ratted me out! Yup, I broke my leg. It's like
having sympathy pains. I understand way too much of what Mom is
experiencing! I've made a list of all the specific experiences I have
inadvertently acquired. In my mind, this is the only justified
reason for breaking my leg; perhaps I can better help Mom. I'll try
to run through as many of them as I can think of, & I'll
be quick.
Hyper-extending my knee, IV (neither Mom nor I
have decent veins), no fluids for 12 hours, cottonmouth, anxiously awaiting
surgery, inability to use the facilities at my own leisure, depending on others
for transportation & taking care of my daily household chores, not to
mention things as big as having hay delivered (thanks for that very important
delivery!), nose breathing tube, becoming sick from moving too fast & being
afraid to eat, having my sheets changed because of that whole getting sick thing
(when I called Mom after getting clean sheets the 1st time, she told me she had
an upset stomach), phone calls from sick bed to sick bed, being hoarse from no
fluid in my throat & intubation, the pain scale 1-10 question, and
into Mom's future: learning to take care of myself despite my
disabilities.
This whole ordeal
is embarrassing, cause I should never have brought myself into the direct care
of my brother's family; he has enough to worry about.
I slipped on the ice & broke both my right Tibia &
Fibia. After all we've been through, Tom & I still can't keep
straight which is the bigger bone. But I broke the big one in a
spiral. I actually think the x-ray looks like art work, with the delicate
spiral, & the fractures that go off at different angles.
There was very little soft tissue damage, so Dr
Basta was able to do surgery Thursday night, 12 hours after I broke it. I
have a plate & 2 sets of 4 screws. She didn't have to do as much
reattaching as she had expected, because of the lack of damage to the soft
tissue.
My nurse on Friday was Leah Rose ... when I was in High School, I
called her Rosie! I graduated with her oldest sister, Mary (whom I used to
call Margaret). Small world! Every time anybody does ANYthing to ya
in the hospital, they have to ask your name & date of birth. I should
have figured that out from Mom. But I understand from my own stupid
experience. Anyway, my first instinct, just because of the hospital &
the bed, was to give Mom's name & birthdate! Then I decided to get
ornery & I told Rosie my name was Mary Kimball, & I nearly got all Kinds
of shots I didn't want!!!
I handed the Cheerleaders over to the care of June, but Tom brought me
a file in a cake, & busted me out of the hospital Friday night so that we
could go watch Morgan at the basketball game during the 2nd half of her
game. We missed the Senior Night Celebrations, but I think she was happy
anyway. We lost the games.
We stopped by the Antelope (now the End of the
Trail) to get a bite to eat after the game, Tom gave me a ride to the door,
typical of Tom, wheelie style! It was over the gravel & he
thought it would be an easier ride.
All things considered, we're looking at wrapping
Tom in bubble wrap!
Since I broke my leg, I've not found myself in a location where I could get
Internet. With the assistance of many friends & staff, I tried while I
was in the hospital. I never made it happen. I'm sorry to have kept
you in the dark while so much has been happening for us.
Cheyenne Regional Medical Center ... I
decided I am just going to continue calling it Laramie County Memorial
Hospital. I know they are moving into the future, but it is confusing to
try to keep up with their advancement. For me, the history is much more
interesting, & has personal meaning. Both the hospital in
Cheyenne, & St Francis have come to be the facility they are, due to
the donations & memories of families named Warren. The family of FE
Warren here in Cheyenne has been one of the favorites for both Dad & I in
our research of local history.
The real reason we are here for you ... Mom. Great news! She
arrived AT Denver Health Medical Center (DHMC) about 5:15 yesterday
evening! We were there for her as soon as they let us into her ER
room. She sure was glad to see us, and calmed down immediately
when she saw us.
We spent a few hours with her. Getting her
new medical staff up to date has helped us understand why St Francis' said it
would be best to keep her there as long as possible, where they understand her
history. There really is a lot of explaining to do. Her medical
record, just covering her medication (MAR - we forgot what it stands for) since
the accident is over 250 pages. We haven't documented her medication
or it would have been shorter to read all of our emails than to read her
medical record!
We have spent most of the time over the last few
days trying to prepare Mom's transition, most of it on the phone. We then
went through several layers of staff (ER, Doctors, two shifts of nurses),
re-explaining her situation. On Monday, the doctors at DHMC will perform
the same procedure that St Francis has done several times, which cleans her
wound, & allows them to access her injuries. We anticipate her
surgeries will begin Wednesday.
Her staff has so far earned our respect, but they don't
comprehend why Mom had to leave Tulsa. They do apparently do several
surgeries like Mom's, which comforts us, because we like the experience they
must have.
We are excited, not only that we are so close to Mom, but that she is now
near to many of the people she knows. Mom has already had her first local
visitors, JD & Robbin. They live about 15 minutes from Mom's room,
& they hope to visit often! They called to let us know that Mom is
very much herself. She remembers most everything, but is frustrated that
she does not remember the accident itself. It would have happened so fast,
there would only be a few seconds of memory, & we don't expect she'll
ever remember them.
They also let us know that a Catholic Father
stopped by to see her, & she asked if she could be visited frequently by the
Pastoral staff.
Mom's room is large, & she is finally in a
place where she would have room for flowers! We didn't think to take her
any yesterday. She has a private room, which we appreciate
still. We don't know (sound familiar?) how long she will be here, but it
is a comfortable room.
Denver Health Medical Center is located at 777 Bannock St in Denver,
Room B444. The hospital is basically on the corner of Speer Blvd &
Bannock, but we found it difficult to find a parking spot. Although it
would have been easier if we'd had a handicap sticker ... hmmm ... wonder what
we would have had to do to get one of those ... maybe if somebody broke a leg or
something!
Visitation hours end at 8 P.M. The Pavilion B
elevator is the only one we found that gets to her room. We kept riding to
the psych ward on the other elevator.
Now I will try to dial-up online, & check my mail quickly before
sending this. We hope you have enjoyed time, perhaps with your family,
watching the Super Bowl. Mom has been rooting for the Colts! ~ Val &
Tom